1. You are human beings. Who created you and provide you everything? Think about Him and thank Him. Be grateful for your services because He is the one who can do what He wants. Think about your eyes, ears, nose, and skin. Who gave them to you? How do you feel if you were deaf or blind for a century, and then God gives you ears and eyes? I know you can’t even think about this circumstance because it is more cheerful than you expect and exceed your expectation. Also, are you ready to sell one of your eyes by one billion dollars? Are you ready to exchange your tongue with the whole world? I know the answer because we all have the same answer. So be thankful and happy in your life. Even if you lose something or encounter some hardships, be strong and try to make your face happy. Then you will be lucky as well.
2. You have to know that your past is just experience. However, if you are still alive in the past, you will lose all of your ambitions and your now days. Try not to think about your past till you need to dredge it up for precious situations. You can’t change how your past life was, so let it go. (Can you return a tear when it came out from your eyes? Can you return a child to a woman’s body when he was born? If the answers are yes, think about your past and live in your past; you also don’t need to think about present and future. However, If the answers are no as they should be, forget your past and your problems that you had ever faced, but get the lessons, messages from your mistakes. Try not to repeat them one more time. If you make a mistake one time, it is natural, but if you make the same mistake more than one time, you are pathetic and should be changed somehow. If you can forget your past years in where and how you made a mistake, you can be upbeat and who you wish to be. Hence, don’t let your past kill your ambitiousness and force you to be pessimistic. Be happy with what you have now- in the present and do your best to save them.
3. Today is your day, and you are living in today, so don’t think about yesterday or tomorrow. You are the human of today. You aren’t the owner of tomorrow, so don’t be the owner of tomorrow. Try to think that you are just living today, and you will die tomorrow. Try to concentrate on toady. Don’t spend even one minute unwisely because one minute has its own value: one hour consists of 60 minutes. If you take care of time like that, you will be whom you want. However, if you think about your past, you will lose today and your future. Try to have a plan for your future, but don’t die for it and don’t always live in it.
4. Try to be trustworthy because it is what you need. It helps you forget your problems. In the meanwhile, it helps you make fewer mistakes. I don’t say that if you are honest, you will never make mistakes because human beings deserve to make mistakes, but toy will make fewer mistakes. Therefore, the wisest and most rational person is a person who makes fewer mistakes than everyone else does, and whenever he makes a mistake, he will regret and invoke God to forgive him. So, if you can be trustworthy, you automatically become happy (God willing). Honesty is a gift that God gave you. Try to save it because it is disgraceful to lose any kind of gifts, especially a valuable one like honesty. Be thankful to the one who gave you it. Ok?
5. Don’t try to change fatalism because your ability is limited. It means you aren’t able to do a sort of things like changing your fatalism. Don’t attempt to go before events because it is impossible; “Don’t count your chickens before they are hatched”. For example, can you pick up fruits from a tree if the fruits haven’t been ripe yet? Can you help a woman to give birth before her normal time comes to give a birth? The answers are no. So, why are being busy and preoccupied with some things that aren’t under your control and power? Be happy with what you have and try to obtain those things that you would like, but in a legal and appropriate way. My friends, being happy helps you to be lucky. Was it familiar to you before?
6. If you help someone, don’t wait for him to thank you because if he thanks you, it means that you don’t help him because you are given your aid and credit back by his thankfulness. Also, if you are waiting for his thankfulness, you don’t help him for the sake of God, but for the sake of your benefits that people call you” he is a good and kind man” . There is another important question which is: what if he even doesn’t thank you. Will you give up helping people or not? You may no longer help anyone else because you don’t get what you are waiting for. So, help people for the sake of God (Almighty); then you will be happy, and luck, of course, will come to you. If you don’t believe, please just test and examine this way, and then you will find what the truth is.
7. Try to make people happy. Tell them good but true things that can make them cheerful. Do you know why? Because if you make someone happy, you will be happy as well because when you make someone happy, he will make someone else happy and this person will make another person happy. Therefore, happiness will spread in your country, and then in the world. When everyone becomes cheerful, you become cheerful as well; that is why I said” If you make a person happy, you will be happy simultaneously. My friends, follow this approach, then we will kill violence together, and we will be lucky, too. Gandhi was one of the most rational men in his century. His approach to change the world was standing against violence. He loved peace and sacrificed himself for the sake of peace and teaching people the power of peace, and he died for peace as well. He sometimes tried to make people, even children happy. Why? What do you think? Why did he perfume it? …………….happiness could help him spread peace. Happiness urges you and me be lucky. If you don’t believe in this way, ignore this way, but please, practice and train this way before coming up with you decision in order to make a fair decision.
8. Try to use and occupy your free time rationally. It is obvious that free time needs to be occupied somehow because if you don’t fill your free time, it will make problems to you. When you have problems, you won’t be happy or lucky meaningfully. Also, when you have free time, you may talk about someone which is gossip, Buxtian. It is a big taboo and transgression. So, try to love your time. Don’t waste one minute because when you lose one minute, then you lose one hour and two hours….etc. try to thank God and think about those things He gave us and gives us and will give us. Try to fill yourself with great books and read them as careful as you can. Try to dedicate and devote a special time for reading because it helps you enhance your background knowledge and not to have free time, which is the source of various problems. If you pursue this method, hopefully you will be cheerful and lucky.
